STRONG FAMILIES ✦ BOLD FAITH ✦ A CITY OF MIRACLES
As a young child growing up in the inner city of northern Kentucky, I was the 3rd child of 4 hungry boys in a single parent home.
My mother worked a full-time job and went to college in hopes to better our lives. We were very poor with no money for food. The clothes on our back were hand-me-downs from extended family members or older siblings.
Rarely did we have the money to afford new clothes. I remember many times eating bread with only ketchup, mustard, or mayonnaise as the main course for dinner.
My father was an abusive alcoholic who enjoyed chasing women more than taking care of his children. Often times when he came over to visit he would beat my mother. Once I watched him take a shot gun and hold it to her face. As she cried in fear, she asked me to go outside so I wouldn't witness the horrific actions of my drunk father.
Not long after my mother and father had divorced, my mother met a man she went to high school with who she would later marry, and he would become my stepfather. In the early years he was no better than my real father. He was an abusive alcoholic as well. Although I've never seen him lay hands on my mother, he did however, physically abuse my two older brothers.
He had 2 daughters from a previous marriage that he showed favoritism to, which left my brothers and I neglected and mistreated. Because he came into my life at an early age, he is the guy that I knew and called as 'dad.' This enraged my real father to the point where he no longer would communicate with me. When it was my turn to talk to him on the phone he would quickly hang up on me.
Years later we went to Texas to visit my Aunt Sandy for the summer. They lived a meek life in the backwoods of East Texas far away from the inner city which I was used to. We went from cars filling the paved street to a muddy back road where few cars traveled. My mother and stepdad decided to move our family to Texas after one visit.
One Sunday my Aunt Sandy took us to an old Pentecostal church. I watched the pastor preach in such a manner that burned in my spirit. He was completely convinced of his message that he preached with passion; insomuch that he sweated out of his three-piece suit. As an unsaved child I was captivated by this pastor. I remember saying to myself, "I want to do that one day!"
You see, I have felt the rejection of my father which led to depression at an early age. I had outbursts of anger and rage. I had no sense of purpose as I was an outcast even among my brothers.
I have watched the effects of sin create disfunction in a family and eat away at their dreams, their purpose, and happiness like it was acidic. I watched my own family scramble with hunger and strive through poverty and lack and still not make ends meet.
BUT I have also experienced the love and compassion from a God who wholeheartedly desires a real relationship with me! A God who has my best interest at heart.
He would go through the deepest valleys of turmoil and despair to rescue me from the stains of the past and the effects of generational errors! I watched God bring healing to our family; spiritually, mentally, and physically! I was there when the salvation of God swept through the lives of my parents. I had the honor and privilege of leading them to the Lord!
The thoughts of suicide have long vanished! He completely dissolved my sin and He remembers them no more! He is a God who saves, heals, and delivers. A God of love and peace, who is not angry with you but desires a real authentic relationship!
So, my focus and calling at Miracle City Church is to help bring stability and restoration to the families that are looking for answers and struggling in life without hope. We want to help them discover purpose and fulfillment so they can be successful in their journey!
To help the fathers find peace and rest for their souls, and to build faith in their heart to help them navigate the stresses of life so they can find direction in uncertainty.
We want to show the dads that God is not angry with them, nor does He disown them in the midst of their failures. We want to show them the healing power of God's deliverance from addictions and depression! We want to help the dads understand and receive the Love of God so they in turn can express love within their own families.
At Miracle City Church we will help guide the mothers to find joy and hope in the midst of the bombardment of constant worry. To help the mothers find comfort in a loving God who has a heart of concern for their well-being; a God who embraces them and wipes away the tears of the many pains life throws at them.
We want to help the mother discover the joy of the Lord that provides strength and stability when she is unsure. We will help the mother find the courage to keep going forward instead of giving up and losing all hope.
We also help the children discover their purpose and provide hope in the face of their insecurities. We want the children to know that there is a God who cares and is not disappointed in them.
To help them find stability when facing the influence of outside pressures so they may be proud of who God made them to be! We want to help them discover that they have a purpose far beyond just mere existence and to help them be unashamed of the gifts and talents that God gave them! To know that they are not a mistake, but they are precious, wanted, needed, and loved!
THE CALLING
It's time to start your church.
Over the years I have heard several leaders, ministers, respected elders, friends, and my pastor mention that I would make a great senior pastor one day. Even though I honored their words, I didn't make any advancement towards making them a reality. I needed to hear from the Lord Himself.
As I was praying in my car on my way to work, I heard the Lord say, "It's time to start your church." I could feel the presence of God in the car and tears swelled up in my eyes as goose bumps covered my arms.
When I arrived to work I sat down at my desk and continued my prayer.
"Ok Lord, If you want me to be a pastor, then where will I put my church?" I asked.
"Conroe." He quickly replied.
"Conroe? Ok, well if I put my church in Conroe, then what will I name the church?" I asked in return.
The Lord told me to research the city of Conroe and told me to Google the nickname of Conroe. What I found caused me to fall back into my office chair, again with tears running down my face. Miracle City. The nickname for Conroe TX is Miracle City, so our church will carry the name as well, Miracle City Church of Texas! It was then that I decided to pursue the calling of being a pastor.
I waited an entire year before I told my wife, Amber. I spent that year praying and seeking the Lord to make sure that I was in line with His word.
I waited a few months longer to discuss this with my pastor. For me, my pastor had to be honored in the process. His reception of the idea would determine my pursuit. My pastor welcomed the idea with joy and excitement, and he gave me detailed strategy on how to move forward! So here we are!
They can argue doctrine and beliefs, but they can never argue a miracle!
Conroe was nick-named "Miracle City" during the early 1900's because it survived a devastating fire which destroyed much of the business district around the courthouse. Plus, the discovery of oil during the Great Depression enhanced that nickname! When the rest of the United States was suffering financially, Conroe was discovering new wealth.
With a name like Miracle City, and the miracle of surviving fires, and the miracle of discovering oil during a nation-wide crisis – there is no doubt that God is not done performing miracles here!
In our current world we desperately need miracles in our city, government, schools, families, and marriages, and even our finances!
We believe that God still wants to do miracles in Miracle City, Texas! With society in disarray and with people exploring "their own truth"; words alone are not enough to win the lost. They will be able to argue doctrine and beliefs, but they can never argue a miracle!
Why choose to plant a church in Conroe?
God chose this area back in the 1800's, and we believe He wants to visit this region yet again.
In the 1800's one of the first non-Catholic churches built in Texas was built in Montgomery, TX. The Methodist circuit riders would come through the area and preach 3-day revivals in the region; and Montgomery was one of their stopping points. Montgomery became a county, and with Conroe now being the county seat of Montgomery; and Conroe being called Miracle City; we felt this is the place where God wants to move among His people. God chose this area back in the 1800's, before Texas was recognized as an independent state; and we believe that He wants to visit this region yet again, beginning in Conroe, otherwise known as Miracle City!
people call Conroe home and the number is still growing
megachurches needed to accommodate the entire census
divorce rate in Conroe, leaving single parent homes struggling
It is proven that when a child finds faith in the Lord first, about 5% of the time the family will follow. When a mother finds faith in the Lord first, about 22% of the time the family will follow. However, when a father finds faith in the Lord first, a staggering 93% of the time the family will follow!
When children have a close and strong connection with their father, they are 75% less likely to have a child in their teens, 80% less likely to be incarcerated, and half as likely to battle with multiple depression symptoms. It is essential to establish strong family values focusing on the father!
The current divorce rate in Conroe is near 12% which would leave single parent homes struggling both with raising their children and being financially stable. Miracle City Church will be family oriented geared to work alongside other social services to aid families in hard times.
Sound biblical teaching will help lower the divorce rate by providing wisdom and principles to help maintain strong healthy marriages and families! Kids suffer the most in these situations, so we will also establish a youth-friendly environment to equip the youth with the necessary spiritual and life skills to become productive and respectable citizens of the region.
We want to see the youth fulfill their dreams and goals and maximize their potential, so they won't be forced to carry the family burden to future generations. We believe the best option to help families is to establish a strong local church where they can find rest and hope in troubled times.
